儿子往上飞父亲向下沉。这位父亲的心结是,儿子所追求的成功是对自己人生的否定、他多么希望儿子踩着自己的轨迹重走一遍,如此他便是永远的导师。儿子很聪明,他用这样的话卸下父亲的心防:I know you and me don’t exactly see eye to eye on certain things. But I come to believe that I got it in me to be somebody in this world.it’s cause I’m the same. I can be just as hardheaded and just as tough. I only hope I can be as good a man as you are.